Monday, September 10, 2012

The One-Year Latin Haircut Rule



Abuelas, Nanas, Nonnas, Omas, Babcias, Grandmeres, Memeres, Bubbes, Nai Nais.

If you're fortunate enough to either still have a grandmother, or remember the presence of a grandmother in your life, then I'll bet you'll have an old wives' tale you can pass on to me. Something you heard from your meemaw's lips, some firm belief she entrusted to your care, to then cast over your own children's lives.

For us, growing up raised by my Colombian Abuela, one of the first wives' tales we heard was "No cut a baby's hair before he is one year old! No!" Bad things could happen if you did. So don't tempt the fates - don't, and leave well enough alone within that one year rule; the way mothers have been doing since the first generation of child-rearing.

Today, I tell the story of what happened when I almost broke the almighty one-year no haircut rule, and took my son for his first haircut - with my mother present. You can read all about it at TikiTiki Blog today, where I write a monthly memoir column. TikiTiki Blog, one of my favorite sites because of the culture, the variety, the passion and pride that you see displayed on every page.

I hope you click over, read about a bi-cultural life, and knowing when to pick your battles.

The One-Year Haircut Rule, at TikiTiki.


9 comments:

  1. I remember that rule. I'm not sure we obeyed it though. My gram didn't have many rules, but she did have a bunch of things that applied to everyday life. Like... "worry is advance payment for trouble that seldom comes." She one for just about every situation. Loved that woman...

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    1. I'm so happy and it makes me smile, Pat, that you have these wonderful memories. What a lucky man you are to have had her in your life.

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  2. Haha. My daughter is 2 1/2 and I still haven't cut her hair yet. It's past the middle of her back. My main reason for waiting is not fearing bad luck or something. It's fearing the temper tantrum that she might throw in the hair salon.

    :-0

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    1. We can't cut hair before a year old on ANYBODY.

      It's a true thing.

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  3. If you want a guest to leave your home, throw some salt by your front door, open the door and sweep it out.

    It works!!

    Ma grandmere
    (Italian and Greek)

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    1. I love these old wives' tales. They're wonderful.

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  4. You might like to know that my grandmother said friends were such and obligation......um, yeah, so I am much obliged to consider you one of my obligations, Empress!

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    1. My middle boy would call that a "complisult."

      Love you, too, sweet Andrea.

      xo

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    2. I just figured she must have had a poor choice in friends to consider them such....complisult...LOVE IT!

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